Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for nearly 20 years and lived with him for three years before marrying him. How ...

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for nearly 20 years and lived with him for three years before marrying him. How ...

Dear Silent No More: Your husband is more than narcissistic — he is also emotionally abusive and sadistic. That you have ...